Where Do I Start? A Guide to Wellness and Fitness For Busy Women
- Ellie (TLM Founder)
- Mar 19
- 2 min read
The journey to better health begins with a single step - but which one?
The Most Common Question: Where Do I Start?
It's the question I hear most often, and it's completely understandable. With so much information out there, knowing where to begin can feel overwhelming.
Let's break it down simply: if fat loss is your goal, we need to create a calorie deficit - burning more calories than you consume.
But this is easier said than done, because your calorie needs are as unique as you are. There's no one-size-fits-all approach.
Consider these contrasting lifestyles:
Woman A: Drives to work, sits at a desk all day, drives home, relaxes on the sofa until bedtime
Woman B: Rises at 5am for a workout, spends the day on their feet at work, walks the dog in the evening
These two women have completely different energy requirements and need personalised approaches.
The Power of Resistance Training
Including resistance training in your routine offers benefits that go far beyond just fat loss:
Increases muscle mass, creating that toned physique many of us desire
Boosts your metabolism (more muscle = more calories burned at rest)
Protects against age-related muscle loss, especially important for women approaching menopause
Strengthens bones, helping prevent osteoporosis
Reduces risk of heart disease and diabetes
Improves mental health by boosting mood and reducing stress and anxiety

Your First Steps: A Realistic Approach
Rome wasn't built in a day, so let's not try to overhaul your entire lifestyle on Monday!
Instead, consider these key factors:
Daily movement
Protein intake
Water consumption
Processed food reduction
Time management and meal preparation
Choose just 2-3 factors to focus on each week. Here's a simple month-long plan to get you started:
Week 1: Movement & Protein
Increase your daily steps by 2,000 steps, three times this week
Walk to work, park further away, take the stairs, walk around the block, meet a friend for coffee and a walk
Prioritise protein at every meal
Plan meals around protein choices: chicken, fish, legumes, eggs, Greek yogurt, cottage cheese etc
Week 2: Consistency & Hydration
Increase steps by 2,000 every day this week
Add one dedicated activity: a power walk, gym session, home workout, swim, or bike ride
Gradually increase water intake by 200ml daily until you reach a minimum of 2 litres
Week 3: Strength & Nutrition
Begin resistance training 2-3 times weekly
Start with short home workouts or gym sessions focusing on proper form and technique
Review portion sizes of fats and carbohydrates
Continue prioritising protein
Bulk up meals with high-volume, low-calorie whole foods like vegetables and potatoes
Reduce processed foods

By the end of your first month, you'll likely feel more energised and will have naturally created a sustainable calorie deficit. You'll be well on your way to achieving fat loss and reaching your goals.
Just imagine what you can accomplish in 3 months or 6 months with this consistent, gradual approach!
Ready to take that first step together? Send me a message today to learn about my 1-2-1 Online Coaching program - personalised support to get you started and keep you accountable on your wellness journey!
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